If you are happy, get together...

Singlehood is desirable anywhere (reel) except in real life. Have caught a few episodes of SATC* over the weekend and in the show - even when Carri*e has to compete with 20 something years old for MBig's attention, you know that the heroine we all be rooting for will be OK. She has her good friends and is doing what she like best - writes. Guy or no guy. Be it 30 years or going 40, they are good cos we know somehow in the end, the male and female leads will get together.

I do not deny that I live in a bubble, where by I think that even without putting any effort, somehow my happy ending will come. Well friends will know, I tried. Avenues that I have attempted to expand my social life and maybe meet somebody, that I do not think I will go through again. But I still believed, when family teased about the lack of friends (from UNI) , when my siblings ask, and relatives join in the questioning,drilling and recommendations for my good, when I look around me at the couples , that I will be OK.

For if one get together for a happy reason, its good for the heart. But if one get together for a reason like loneliness, I would think solitaire is more desirable...